cli: add network fallback and explicit-only Internal Domain modes

Internal Domains now support three modes. "os" (network default) is
unchanged. "resolvers" becomes explicit resolver with network fallback,
the default explicit selection: the configured resolvers are tried
first, and a timeout, unreachable resolver, SERVFAIL, NXDOMAIN, REFUSED
or NOTIMP hands the query to the network resolvers - matching VPN DNS
servers, then domain-less VPN DNS servers, then the OS resolver's LAN
nameservers. A valid empty answer stays final. "resolvers_only" keeps
the previous strict behavior.

The OS step uses a new LanOnlyQueryCtx: the OS resolver then asks only
its LAN-classified nameservers (private, loopback, link-local, CGNAT)
and sends nothing when it has none, so the private name never reaches a
public nameserver, whether DHCP supplied it or it is ctrld's own public
fallback. LanQueryCtx only dropped the latter. LAN-only queries get
their own singleflight and hot-cache key, so they are never answered
with an ordinary query's public answer.

In fallback mode a configured resolver that the upstream monitor has
marked down is skipped instead of waited on, so an endpoint off the
organization network reaches the fallback without paying the
resolver's 2s timeout on every query. Nothing else marks a generated
resolver up again, so skipping one re-checks it in the background, at
most once every 30s; an answer marks it up. Strict mode never skips.

An absent mode with resolvers gets the fallback mode. An unrecognized
mode with resolvers fails closed to explicit resolver only, so a wire
value this build does not know never sends the domain to the Control D
upstream; without resolvers it is dropped. Switching between the
explicit modes is detected on refresh.

Generated upstreams are now identified by an UpstreamConfig.InternalDomain
marker that records their mode and that no configuration file can set,
instead of by the internal_ key prefix. An upstream a local ctrld.toml or
custom config defines as internal_foo, or as a copy of a generated one,
is an ordinary upstream again: it keeps the OS-resolver catch-all,
recovery and query-health grading.

The "resolvers_only" wire value is provisional until the API agrees on
it; the dashboard does not offer strict mode yet.

cmd/cli/cli.go

@@ -1058,6 +1058,7 @@ func logInternalDomainsSummary(logger zerolog.Logger, summary internalDomainsSum
 	event.Int("domains", summary.domains).
 		Int("os_resolver", summary.osMode).
 		Int("explicit_resolver", summary.explicit).
+		Int("explicit_resolver_only", summary.only).
 		Int("resolvers", summary.resolvers).
 		Int("skipped", summary.skipped).
 		Int("preempted", summary.preempted).