fix: restore v1 intercept parity on master

Restore the previously merged macOS VPN DNS post-settle refresh,
unchanged-exemption suppression, forced pf state flush, and self-upgrade
test after they were removed by the firewall-mode merge.

Also keep Windows NRPT pointed at loopback when the listener is configured
on a wildcard address.

cmd/cli/dns_intercept_settle_test.go

@@ -0,0 +1,49 @@
+package cli
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"testing"
+
+	"github.com/Control-D-Inc/ctrld"
+)
+
+func TestRefreshDNSAfterVPNSettleRefreshesOSResolverAndVPNRoutes(t *testing.T) {
+	oldInitialize := initializeOsResolver
+	defer func() { initializeOsResolver = oldInitialize }()
+
+	var initialized []bool
+	initializeOsResolver = func(ctx context.Context, force bool) []string {
+		initialized = append(initialized, force)
+		return []string{"10.102.26.10:53"}
+	}
+
+	var exemptionUpdates [][]vpnDNSExemption
+	p := &prog{}
+	p.vpnDNS = newVPNDNSManager(&mainLog, func(exemptions []vpnDNSExemption) error {
+		exemptionUpdates = append(exemptionUpdates, append([]vpnDNSExemption{}, exemptions...))
+		return nil
+	})
+	p.vpnDNS.discoverVPNDNS = func(context.Context) []ctrld.VPNDNSConfig {
+		return []ctrld.VPNDNSConfig{{
+			InterfaceName: "utun4",
+			Servers:       []string{"10.102.26.10"},
+			Domains:       []string{"bmwgroup.net"},
+		}}
+	}
+
+	routes, domainlessServers, exemptions := p.refreshDNSAfterVPNSettle("test")
+
+	if routes != 1 || domainlessServers != 0 || exemptions != 1 {
+		t.Fatalf("expected 1 route, 0 domainless servers, 1 exemption, got routes=%d domainless=%d exemptions=%d",
+			routes, domainlessServers, exemptions)
+	}
+	if len(initialized) != 1 || !initialized[0] {
+		t.Fatalf("expected forced OS resolver refresh once, got %v", initialized)
+	}
+	if got := p.vpnDNS.UpstreamForDomain("jira.cc.bmwgroup.net."); len(got) != 1 || got[0] != "10.102.26.10" {
+		t.Fatalf("expected refreshed VPN DNS route, got %v", got)
+	}
+	if len(exemptionUpdates) != 0 {
+		t.Fatalf("expected route-only refresh to avoid pf exemption updates, got %+v", exemptionUpdates)
+	}
+}