fix: restore v1 intercept parity on master

Restore the previously merged macOS VPN DNS post-settle refresh,
unchanged-exemption suppression, forced pf state flush, and self-upgrade
test after they were removed by the firewall-mode merge.

Also keep Windows NRPT pointed at loopback when the listener is configured
on a wildcard address.

cmd/cli/main_test.go

@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@ package cli
 
 import (
 	"os"
+	"os/exec"
 	"strings"
 	"testing"
 
@@ -28,5 +29,20 @@ func TestMain(m *testing.M) {
 	l := zap.New(core)
 
 	mainLog.Store(&ctrld.Logger{Logger: l})
+
+	// Stub the self-upgrade command builder for the whole test binary. The real
+	// builder execs os.Executable() — which under `go test` IS this test binary
+	// — with positional args ("upgrade", ...). `go test` stops flag parsing at
+	// the first positional arg and ignores the rest, so the child just re-runs
+	// the entire suite, hits the upgrade tests again, and spawns more children:
+	// a fork bomb of detached processes that stalls the host and (on Windows)
+	// holds the test binary's image locked, breaking CI artifact cleanup.
+	// Point it at the test binary with a no-match -test.run so any test that
+	// reaches performUpgrade still exercises the cmd.Start() success path while
+	// the child exits immediately without recursing.
+	newUpgradeCmd = func(exe string) *exec.Cmd {
+		return exec.Command(exe, "-test.run=^$")
+	}
+
 	os.Exit(m.Run())
 }