cmd/cli: handle stop signal from service manager

So using "ctrld stop" or service manager to stop ctrld will end up with
the same result, stopped ctrld with a working DNS, and deactivation pin
code will always have effects if set.

cmd/cli/self_kill_unix.go

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ func selfUninstall(p *prog, logger zerolog.Logger) {
 		logger.Fatal().Err(err).Msg("could not determine executable")
 	}
 	args := []string{"uninstall"}
-	if !deactivationPinNotSet() {
+	if deactivationPinSet() {
 		args = append(args, fmt.Sprintf("--pin=%d", cdDeactivationPin.Load()))
 	}
 	cmd := exec.Command(bin, args...)