fix: ensure upstream health checks can handle large DNS responses

- Add UpstreamConfig.VerifyMsg() method with proper EDNS0 support
- Replace hardcoded DNS messages in health checks with standardized verification method
- Set EDNS0 buffer size to 4096 bytes to handle large DNS responses
- Add test case for legacy resolver with extensive extra sections

cmd/cli/dns_proxy.go

@@ -1400,9 +1400,6 @@ func (p *prog) checkUpstreamOnce(upstream string, uc *ctrld.UpstreamConfig) erro
 		return err
 	}
 
-	msg := new(dns.Msg)
-	msg.SetQuestion(".", dns.TypeNS)
-
 	timeout := 1000 * time.Millisecond
 	if uc.Timeout > 0 {
 		timeout = time.Millisecond * time.Duration(uc.Timeout)
@@ -1416,6 +1413,7 @@ func (p *prog) checkUpstreamOnce(upstream string, uc *ctrld.UpstreamConfig) erro
 	mainLog.Load().Debug().Msgf("Rebootstrapping resolver for upstream: %s", upstream)
 
 	start := time.Now()
+	msg := uc.VerifyMsg()
 	_, err = resolver.Resolve(ctx, msg)
 	duration := time.Since(start)