Add guard checks to prevent panics when processing client info with
empty IP addresses. Replace netip.MustParseAddr with ParseAddr to
handle invalid IP addresses gracefully instead of panicking.
Add test to verify queryFromSelf handles IP addresses safely.
Since application may need SRV record for public domains, which could be
blocked by OS resolver, but not with remote upstreams.
This was reported by a Minecraft user, who seeing thing is broken after
upgrading to v1.4.0 release.
Since SRV record is mostly useful in AD environment. Even in non-AD one,
the OS resolver could still resolve the query for external services.
Users who want special treatment can still specify domain rules to
forward requests to ControlD upstreams explicitly.
So ctrld can record the raw/original client IP instead of looking up
from MAC to IP, which may not the right choice in some network setup
like using wireguard/vpn on Merlin router.
