Consume resolver.split_dns and generate a policy rule per domain, plus its
wildcard, so a suffix and its subdomains route to the OS resolver when no
resolvers are given, or to the configured resolvers when they are.
Explicit resolvers are exclusive: when all of them fail the query returns
SERVFAIL rather than taking the OS catch-all or starting recovery, and it
skips VPN split routing, which is auto-detected. Excludes and custom config
keep precedence; a refresh regenerates the config, so removals leave no
stale rule or upstream.
Otherwise, network changes may not be seen on some platforms, causing
ctrld failed to recover and failing all requests.
While at it, also doing the check DNS in separate goroutine, prevent it
from blocking ctrld from notifying others that it "started". The issue
was seen when ctrld is configured as direct listener, requests are
flooded before ctrld started, causing the healtch process failed.