feat(notification): report actions on desktop (#3671)

* feat(notification): report actions on desktop

A click on a notification (tap) or on one of the actions of its action
type now reaches the JavaScript onAction listeners on desktop, and the
new Rust Notification::on_action on every platform. On Linux and the
BSDs the click comes from the notification server's ActionInvoked
signal; on Windows and macOS from notify-rust's wait_for_response,
which needs notify-rust 4.18.

register_action_types, remove_active (Linux and the BSDs) and the
listener commands are implemented for desktop, so they no longer fail
with "command not found".

The api example sends a notification with two actions and shows the
action it hears.

Closes #2150, closes #1903.

* fix(notification): complete desktop action API

* cleanup

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Co-authored-by: Haex <hexxx@ok.de>
Co-authored-by: Lucas Nogueira <lucas@tauri.app>

.changes/notification-desktop-actions.md

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+"notification": minor:feat
+"notification-js": minor:feat
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+Report actions on desktop: a click on a notification (`tap`) or on one of the actions of its action type reaches `onAction` and the new Rust `Notification::on_action`, which also works on mobile. `registerActionTypes`, `removeActive` (Linux and the BSDs) and the listener commands no longer fail with "command not found" on desktop.
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+The `onAction` callback is now typed with the new `ActionPerformed` interface, which is what every platform sends, instead of `Options`. Callbacks annotated with `Options` must be updated.