fix(http): use tokio oneshot channel for detecting abort (#1395)

* fix(http): properly handle aborting

closes #1376

* abort early in JS

* avoid using unnecessary mutexes

* fix lint

* update bundle

* simplify

Cargo.lock

@@ -6570,6 +6570,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "tauri-plugin",
  "tauri-plugin-fs",
  "thiserror",
+ "tokio",
  "url",
  "urlpattern",
 ]
@@ -7114,10 +7115,22 @@ dependencies = [
  "pin-project-lite",
  "signal-hook-registry",
  "socket2",
+ "tokio-macros",
  "tracing",
  "windows-sys 0.48.0",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "tokio-macros"
+version = "2.3.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "5f5ae998a069d4b5aba8ee9dad856af7d520c3699e6159b185c2acd48155d39a"
+dependencies = [
+ "proc-macro2",
+ "quote",
+ "syn 2.0.69",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "tokio-native-tls"
 version = "0.3.1"