* feat(sql): add autoCreate option to Database.load
Add utoCreate option to Database.load allowing users to disable implicit database creation when loading a database.
Closes#299
* fix(sql): fix unused variable without a database feature
* refactor(sql): share the database existence check between drivers
* fix(sql): don't report a failed existence check as a missing database
* fix(sql): name the database as passed, without password, in the missing database error
* fix(sql): don't create the app config dir when autoCreate is false
* refactor(sql): use the LoadOptions default for missing options
* test(sql): cover autoCreate and password redaction
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Co-authored-by: Lucas Nogueira <lucas@tauri.app>
* refactor(sql): Allow multiple drivers at the same time
* fmt
* remove default feature comment [skip ci]
* what was that doing there [skip ci]
* disable public methods for now
